Polls - Love, Sex & Relationships

Whenever they both feel like it.Judging a relationship between two people who love each other is not for other people to do! Frequent sex is not the most important factor by which to evaluate a relationship.

Were you asking for an opinion on what is a balanced sex life in terms of frequency?

Or were you asking the WDYT voters what their sex lives were like in terms of frequency?

Pointless question. The research is out there for what the optimum frequency of sexual activity is for men and women is but, in the privacy of people's homes and bedrooms, frequency varies.

The frequency is a personal decision between two adults. To equate the happiness of a marriage through such a superficial way is ridiculous. Love means different things to different people. The physical infatuation young people feel in the early stages of marriage soon fades (whether you like it or not). In meaningful marriages this immature infatuation is replaced by a deeper love borne from shared experiences (good and bad). It is through these shared experiences over many years (eg rearing a family) that an intense bond is gained forming a very deep love that will stand the test of time. Sexual attraction can be felt for many people but it is a rare thing to find your Soul Partner, the one person who will love you for YOU (warts and all). This type of love is beautiful and increasingly rare.

Different for every couple. What is healthy for one may be too much or too little for another. What is UNhealthy is when the frequency is not enough or too much for each member of the couple - ie one wants it more often or less often than the other and it becomes a problem.

lol what a question.